Investigating Cheating Spouse & Partners
- Do you suspect a cheating spouse or partner?
- Are you married or in a relationship and you feel something is wrong?
- Generally for most people their gut instincts are often accurate but to what extent?
- Is your spouse or partner showing signs of change or have been neglecting you in some way?
Please read our “What Are The Signs” for further points on what to look for in a cheating partner.
Infidelity does not necessarily suggest physical intimacy, it can also be in the form of emotional intimacy. Infidelity does not only constitute sex outside of the relationship, but is also about trust, betrayel, lying, disloyalty and more.
Using A Private Investigator
Using a private investigator to investigate your partner is often the most successful way to find the answers you need, whether your doubts are confirmed or dismissed.
The reason why using a private investigator is preferred is because it allows you the client to seperate yourself from the investigation. Often people who confront their partner and start making allegations before the facts are collected have already tarnished the relationship and have built a case against themselves. Using a private investiagtor will allow you to collect all the facts without your partners knowledge. That way you have all the answers you need without the confrontation or risk in following them. You can then make an informed decision based on the facts presented to you.
If your partner is not found to be cheating on you then great, at least your mind is at ease and you haven’t already damaged your relationship by jumping the gun and investigating them yourself along with asking questions and pointing the finger. We have found with 99% of our clients that them asking their partner if they have been unfaithful will only result in them denying any wrong doing.
Cheating Spouse & Partners Statistics
- Some researches today say that there is 50% chance that a relationship has or will have a cheating spouse or partner, including non physical relationships.
- 27% of people who reported being happy in their marriage admitted to cheating whether it be physically or emotionally.
- 20% of long term relationships began when one or both partners were involved with someone else.
- Men are more likely to cheat than woman regardless of whether or not they are in a marriage or dating relationship.
- Female infidelity has increased 50% and is fast approaching the rate of male infidelity.
- Many experts believe the increase in cheating partners is due to the greater opportunity with partners often being away from each other due to work and other responsibilities, and also due to the fact that younger people are often involved with multiple sexual partners before they get married.
- Men who have fathers who have engaged in infidelity are more likely to cheat in their own relationship.
Infidelity Jurisdictions
It is said that extramarital affairs may incur unexpected financial costs without anyone being aware. For example, in Australia, affairs that have gone on for 2 or more years may be considered a de-facto relationship. This poses issues for the married cheater and their spouse as it could possibly expose the married cheater to financial claims in the family law court on their superannuation, income and property. A de-facto relationship may even exist when the partners do not think so. The court will make that decision on when it began and ended based on the evidence provided.
Infidelity At Work
One of the reasons for office romances is the time that co workers spend together. Spouses and partners today often spend more time with their co workers than each other. This has become more prevalant as more woman now have taken to the workforce than years ago when the majority would be the homekeeper.
